love one another

was reading yest at work when i had a moment. read John 15 (service verse) and had new revelation.. yah, cos alwiz thot these verses sound good but don really know what they mean.. thank You Father.. :)

conversation went something like this..

John 15:5"I am the vine; you are the branches. If a man remains in me and I in him, he will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.

i want to bear much fruit too! but God, what does it mean to remain in You..?(??)

John 15:9 "As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love. 10If you obey my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have obeyed my Father's commands and remain in his love.

ohh.. so i remain(abide) in You when i obey Your commandments.. hmm.. what does it mean to obey Your commandments. so many...

John 15:12 My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. 13Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends.

ooh.. okie.. so to sum up.. it is to love one another, up to being willing to lay down life.. thus, we will bear much fruit when we love one another.. yah makes sense, cos i remember another verse somewhere dat says 'this is how the world will know You are my disciples, when you love one another.' okie.. now i think i understand this verse better. :) wat does it mean to love one another.. wah think this one mus take longer to think...